Monday, April 7, 2014

Missing L’Wren

L’Wren after her final runway show in September 2013. Photo by Yannis Vlamos.

This is not the post I planned to write about L’Wren Scott.

I’d already drafted a piece in mid-March about how I’d gone back for more of her Banana Republic collection. In fact, I’d purchased two more of her cardigans the night before she died. I was shocked over news of her suicide on March 17 in Manhattan and still can’t believe it happened. I wasn’t sure if I should still publish the writing I’d done on L’Wren, then decided to scrap what I’d drafted and start over, in order to share with you what I loved about her aesthetic and her work.

Variation on a theme: A “Headmistress” dress in pink. Photo by Marcio Madeira.

One of the holiday seasons I worked at Bloomingdale’s, there was an abandoned half-folded section from The New York Times sitting in the employee coat-check. It was an article about L’Wren launching her eponymous fragrance line. It talked about the (now) well-known facts of her life—raised in Utah by adoptive Mormon parents, she left home for Paris at 17 and with her 6’3 frame soon found work as a model. She parlayed that experience into becoming a photographer’s assistant, then a stylist, then a designer. What I loved most about that article was this quote, “…it was her mother who told her: Luann (as she was once known), if you really want something, no one is going to knock on your door and just give it to you.” What great mom advice! It was clear from the piece that she had worked very hard to get where she was. I think it’s easy to assume that Mick Jagger, her companion of many years, gave her the funds to start her line but I do not believe that was the case. I think L’Wren did all of it herself so for me, as soon as I read that article, it put her in a positive light since I like to read about the journey women take when they start their own businesses and L’Wren had an interesting journey indeed.

A sequined cardigan from the Banana Republic collection.

If L’Wren’s work is any indication, she loved the things I love—lace, velvet, jewel-tone colors, peonies, pencil skirts, red nails, dark eyeliner, black sunglasses, vintage jewelry, cropped cardigans, a Victorian cut to a jacket, and sequins, sequins, and more sequins.

I had worn one of her purple sequined cardigans, shown above, out for drinks with a friend in early March. I added a blouse with a floaty bow, red nails, boot-cut dark denim and the highest heels I could walk in. This is what I loved about L’Wren’s aesthetic: I was all covered up and yet there was a darkly glittering aspect to the look. It was pure L’Wren glamour.

From the “Bois de Boulogne” collection, Fall 2009. Photo by Marcio Madeira.

The time my mother and I went to Barney’s and saw L’Wren’s line we couldn’t help taking a closer look. The clothes were gorgeous—black and slim, elegant and ladylike. We literally turned them inside out to see how they were made. My mother, who is a great sewer, commented that she’d never seen such beautiful finishing in her life. One look at the inside of a L’Wren Scott dress and it was clear she was a perfectionist.

Great details on this peony-print sleeveless blouse.

Sharon Stone and Isabelle Adjani in a scene from Diabolique. L'Wren designed some of the costumes for the film.

I like that she stayed true to herself—she loved embellished cardigans, her headmistress dress, and high-necked blouses with ruffles, and she showed new versions of them with every collection. It was about shine, it was about glamour, but I thought the clothes also looked very wearable. I always knew I was going to see something I loved in a L’Wren Scott show. The costumes she designed for Sharon Stone in the 1996 remake of Diabolique were perfect for that hard-hearted but well-dressed character. The gorgeous blue sequined L’Wren gown that Amy Adams wore to the Oscars in 2011 remains one of my favorite red carpet looks ever. L’Wren was so very talented and I am going to miss her so much.

Amy Adams wore this L’Wren dress to the Oscars in 2011. I still love it!

One thing that saddens me about L’Wren’s suicide, or any suicide, is that suddenly the person’s entire life is considered tragic, no matter what came before. There has been so much speculation as to what drove her to end her life that I won’t add to it, I only wish she could’ve found another option. Which leads me to this remembrance:

I went to a reading Joyce Carol Oates gave in Manhattan once, to promote Blonde, her moving novel about Marilyn Monroe. In the Q&A session someone asked her about rumors that Marilyn had committed suicide, which Oates rejected, believing Marilyn’s death to be an accidental drug overdose. She took the opportunity to talk about two famous suicides, that of Sylvia Plath and Ernest Hemingway. She said instead of focusing on the suicide and casting their lives in a dark light, readers needed to remember that Plath and Hemingway were sensitive people who had struggled with depression their whole lives, done the best they could despite it, and had ultimately lost a lifelong battle. She encouraged the audience to focus on what Plath and Hemingway were able to create while they were alive, not the way in which they died. It was one of the most profound statements I’d ever heard about suicide, whether the person was an artist or not.

A dress from her last collection Spring/Summer 2014. Photo by Yannis Vlamos.

Julia Louis-Dreyfus, left, wears a cardigan featuring the same embroidery as above. Photo by Amy Dickerson.

I never heard or read that L’Wren struggled with depression but perhaps she did and kept it a secret from her friends and the media. I didn’t know her, obviously, and I never met her, but her work brought me such delight that I am going to take Joyce Carol Oates’s advice and focus on the beauty L’Wren was able to create while she was here, beauty that will continue to delight—me and others—for years to come.

From British Harper’s Bazaar, February 2013. Photo by Olivia Arthur.

If you are looking for thoughtful essays on L’Wren’s work, written by people who knew her, I highly recommend Cathy Horyn’s article for The New York Times, “Memories of a Friend, a Teacher, and a Fighter” and Sarah Mower’s piece “A Tribute to L’Wren Scott” for Vogue.com. Both are excellent and worth a read.

Wednesday, April 2, 2014

How I Wear My: Skirt

Adrienne of The Rich Life (on a budget).

Spring is here! It has been so nice to enjoy slightly warmer weather and to remember that we have legs that might like to see daylight once again so Adrienne of The Rich Life (on a budget) and I thought we’d devote April’s “How I Wear My” to that very versatile wardrobe item, the skirt.

Chances are you have several hanging in your closet and after you see this post you are going to want to get them all out and start wearing them regularly again (or maybe that’s just me). From pleated to pencil, from maxi to mini, and everything in between, check out all these great skirts!

Adrienne of The Rich Life (on a budget), my lovely “How I Wear My” partner, has picked a neutral path with her gray thrifted pencil skirt, quilted sweatshirt from H&M, Vince Camuto tassel necklace (love!) and slouchy gray booties. I think this is a great transitional look as we move further into spring and I love the pop of color on her nails.

Tamera of Tamera Beardsley.
Tamera of Tamera Beardsley wrote, “I am having some major maxi skirt love right now! I love pairing maxi skirts with anklet collections, worn together, they work perfectly for a sunset beach walk as well as dinner and cocktails in town! Maxi skirts and anklets make for the perfect mix of modern coastal glam!”

It’s no secret that I love old Hollywood glamour so this picture of Tamera with the fur stole and the turban and wearing a crochet skirt on the beach is knocking me out. Mr. DeMille, Tamera is ready for her close-up!

Details of Tamera’s anklets.

Elsie of The Cooking Wardrobe.

I think Elsie of The Cooking Wardrobe looks so ethereal and beautiful in her unusual print Jacqui-E skirt worn with a Dolman-sleeved black blouse reminiscent of a kimono. I love the entire outfit set against such a lush and gorgeous background!

Trina of Tea Time With Trina.

Trina of Tea Time With Trina said of her skirt, “I really wanted to invest in a new pleated skirt this season but one that could be worn in a variety of ways. When I saw this little number I just knew it was the one.”

I love this picture of Trina so much. I think the entire look is Updated Grace Kelly, from the denim jacket to the pleated skirt, from the knotted scarf to the navy patent bag, capped off with sunglasses and chunky gold jewelry. Adore!

Catherine of Not Dressed As Lamb.

Catherine of Not Dressed As Lamb wrote of her outfit, “My chevron midi skirt is an oldie but a goodie. And with the weather in the UK just warm enough to bare some pale legs, it’s been nice to think about wearing something other than skinny jeans and boots. I’ve worn this skirt so many times on the blog and have just realized it works so well with neon.”

I never get tired of chevron stripes so I can’t help but love this look!

Sue of A Colourful Canvas.

Sue of A Colourful Canvas made this pretty pleated yellow skirt (and you know I am partial to a home-sewn skirt)! I love that she paired it with a paler yellow shirt and gave the whole outfit a vintage twist with the red belt and bag and scarf in her hair.

Jan of Fort Smith Stylista.

Jan of Fort Smith Stylista said, “I’m thoroughly obsessed by midis this Spring, and it’s a fun challenge trying to make them work for me!”

I love the color and length of Jan’s dusty rose skirt, especially paired with this shade of blue. I don’t own a skirt of this kind at all, but Jan’s photo makes me want to fix that, stat! The best part? Just like Sue, above, in fact, INSPIRED BY SUE, Jan made this skirt! What?!? Now I want one!

Sheree of It’s Not That Deep.

Sheree of It’s Not That Deep wrote of her look, “The ‘skirt’ is actually a vintage dress. I decided to go with a feminine modern edge and teamed it with a neoprene top and white pumps.”

Sheree thought it might be a good styling tip to show everyone this look, and I agree because I have done this myself by covering up the top half of a dress with another garment to give the appearance of wearing a skirt. Have you tried this too?

Bella of The Citizen Rosebud.

Bella of The Citizen Rosebud is pairing one of my favorite color combos—red, black and white. I love that skirt (and I think Elsa Schiaparelli would’ve too, do note the lobster!), and I like the addition of animal print boots!

Suzanne of Suzanne Carillo Style Files.

Suzanne of Suzanne Carillo Style Files shows us how to mix patterns in such a great way—I am wild about this blue leopard sweater next to a skirt featuring oversized flowers. Perfection!

Cynthia of My Rose Colored Shades.

Cynthia of My Rose Colored Shades said of her look, “I love this versatile striped skirt that I used as the feature to come up with two different takes on the nautical theme.”

This is such a great look with the blazer and neutral bag and I think the anchor T-shirt is a wonderful touch!

Miki.

Miki said of her look, “I love wearing fun patterned skirts with a simple top and some sparkling accessories!”

Miki’s pencil skirt is by Charter Club and it’s great worn in combination with a citrine top by J. Crew. If you’re interested in the Silpada necklace she is wearing you can contact her here.

Ana of Mrs. American Made.

Ana of Mrs. American Made wrote of her outfit, “This is a super springy look with a short floral silk skirt by Velvet and a bright tomato red T-shirt James Perse. The simple T-shirt and elastic-waist skirt is extra comfy and easy for weekend wear, but I made it look a bit more polished with the bow belt and quick updo. I find I do wear skirts a bit on the short side, but being only 5’3 I think the length is better for me.”

Ana brings up an interesting point—do you favor a certain length in your skirt because of your height?

Silk Path Diary.

Silk Path Diary wrote, “I love wearing skirts - even my new found passion for boyfriend jeans has not diminished my joy in wearing skirts all year round. They are probably the most versatile items in my entire closet.”

The skirt she is wearing here is a vintage Max Mara. I just love the center front box pleat and that she is wearing the skirt with a gray cable-knit sweater and golden yellow silk scarf. What a great color combination.

Linda of A Labour of Life.

Linda of A Labour of Life wrote of her look, “I wear my skirts with textured tights and bright sweaters.”

I realized after seeing Linda’s picture that this is what I need to try—textured tights! I always love this look on other ladies but don’t own textured tights myself. The ones Linda is wearing here are from Old Navy. If any of you babes out there have other brand suggestions for textured tights, let me know what they are!

Anne of Music and Markets.

Anne of Music and Markets said, “Oh how eager I am to wear this skirt again, winter just WON’T let go here in the DC area!”

She’s wearing a lovely floral print pencil skirt from Talbots and—lucky lady—is walking along the shore of Lake Iseo in Italy.

Jenni of AfrockinNZ.

Jenni of AfrockinNZ was given this skirt by a good friend of her. She wrote, “It has such a pretty design to it. With the elasticized waist I can wear it high, as seen in this picture, or I can wear it lower on my hips. It has a pretty black ribbon that wraps around it and can tie into a big bow. It makes me feel very feminine.”

This is the kind of skirt that is just so perfect in springtime, don’t you think?

Kim of Northern California Style.
Kim of Northern California Style is wearing a new J. Crew skirt with her navy sweater and I love the feminine ease of her look. Maybe I need to ditch my regular jeans and start dressing like this!

Fiona of Avenue 57.

Fiona of Avenue 57 wrote, “I love this skirt so much - it’s so versatile and easy to wear, day or night.”

I love how Fiona showed us her two different ways to wear this floral skirt. Talk about taking it from day to night!

In front of Farrell’s Bar & Grill in Windsor Terrace, Brooklyn. The place to be on parade day!

I will admit that skirts are not a mainstay for me. I find them too restrictive for my everyday life, which, now that the weather is going to warm up, will include a lot of outdoor time with kids on scooters and bikes. But I wanted to get skirt pictures during the St. Patrick’s Day Parade in my neighborhood of Park Slope so I opted for a basic black pencil skirt from J. Crew and riding boots. My daughter is an Irish step dancer and while her group marches in the parade, all of us parents are in the back, walking the parade route as well, with the very glamorous job of holding the girls’ jackets!

My friend Gwynne, also my fearless photographer, has a daughter in the same Irish step dance troupe so she brought her camera and after the parade we wanted to capture the scene in Windsor Terrace, where the parade ends. This is Farrell’s Bar & Grill, which is a Brooklyn institution, opening in 1933 just after Prohibition was lifted. The crowds spill over outside the bar every year after the parade, where they drink on the sidewalk from Styrofoam containers and the NYPD keeps a watchful eye on proceedings! I couldn’t help jumping right next to the men in blue for a picture.

I feel so safe next to New York’s finest!

A family affair: Two of the young men pictured here are sons of the drummer!

Gwynne and I were also on the hunt for a man in a kilt to join the skirt fun so it seemed beyond lucky when an entire pipes and drums band came outside of a house down the street from Farrell’s for a smoke after celebratory post-parade drinks inside. They kindly agreed to pictures and then picked up their instruments and started to play right there in front of the house. God I love New York. And men in kilts!

Parades bring people together!

For May we are going to focus on footwear, specifically, sneakers! Can you find a way to make them part of a fashion statement? If yes, please join us for “How I Wear My: Sneakers” by sending a photo to [email protected] by May 5, 2014.

Do stop by Adrienne’s to see even more fabulous looks featuring skirts.

And thank you to all the fine foxes who joined us this month!